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21 Fun Things We've Forgotten While Growing Up

Mon, 17 Sep 2007 04:10:29 GMT

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Even when there's not a prize in the bottom of the box.
(Which I've been skipping due to the lateness in waking up.)
Sometimes it's best to be completely blunt with people, as you used to be with relatives who wanted you to do something embarrassing or tedious for a shiny quarter.
(The older we grow the more pride we care, which is bad.)
Asking questions is how you figure things out. Lots and lots of questions.
(Lotsa people wanna act clever.)
An older, wiser Gordie Lachance says in Stand By Me, "I never had any friends later on like the ones I had when I was 12." Lachance is right. The trick is to try to be the friend you were when you were 12: fun-loving and loyal, with no strings attached.
(Want to have more friends of these!)
Playing is work. Approach your downtime with all the seriousness of a 5-year-old with a secret treasure map.
(Gotta play harder.)
Real guys don't dip their toes in the water. They jump right in.
(Who's the pussy?)
Girls have cooties. Well, the ones you meet in certain bars do, anyway.
(We are living fungus.)
You hated it when a grown-up told you, "We'll see." It's still unacceptable. Don't say it yourself.
(Yeah... hate that then and now.)
The only way to know how something works is to completely disassemble it.
(Apply this to a complex problem and it will help.)
There's a reason they don't give credit cards to 8-year-olds. You're supposed to save up money before you buy a new toy.
(Earn more in my opinion.)
Your body was designed for throwing baseballs, shooting hoops, and jumping off diving boards and stuff. In the secret language of children, the word "fitness" doesn't exist. It's called "having fun."
(Gosh, I've not been having fun for a long time!)
Your world can be half-real and half-imaginary.
(Ok... doing it from now on.)
Homework blows. Bring work home with you and it'll ruin your night. And your marriage. And your family. And your life.
(I'm pretty efficient, still.)
Too much of anything will give you a tummy ache. Like, say, bourbon.
(25 years later I'm still learning this.)
If there's even the slightest doubt, hit the potty before you leave.
(That's so kid, but maybe that's fun.)
The coolest adults were the ones who took the time to listen to you. You still want to grow up to be a cool adult, right?
(Yeah I remember those adults.)
Treasure Island, Dracula: The best books are consumed after dark with a flashlight.
(Gotta try this again soon.)
Use adrenaline as your drug of choice. You don't need beer, pot, or cigarettes to have a good time.
(Agree.)
Kissing a girl on the cheek is a big deal. Kissing her lips is an even bigger deal. Seeing her naked for the first time is a major, life-altering event.
(Oh the series of unfortunate events a kid goes through.)
Going after a target in the urinal makes the time whiz by.
(Love those target they put up.)
Seeing a thunderstorm roll in is better than watching HDTV. And rain isn't something to curse, but to enjoy. Hurry up, before it clears.
(Have always played under the rain... which I should do it soon!)

The 'wow' Factor

Tue, 10 Jul 2007 08:34:38 GMT

To some of my friends who knows I've been playing a game called World of Warcraft by Blizzard, this 'wow' factor isn't related to the awesome game.

This 'wow' factor I would like to talk about today is related to human. Nope... not about chick's 'wow' factor. This 'wow' factor is something really grand that I think everyone in this world should take a moment to embrace it.

Humans are animals that naturally coexist with one another. We tend to share more than just objects in life. We also share feelings, emotion, events and many more. When was the last time you've got great news and decided to buy your friends beer, or how about that time when you cried over your friends shoulder over something dreadful? These are the 'wow' factors that I want to talk about.

I'm sure everyone would feel honoured when your friends call you out for a dinner celebration over something that is joyous to him/her. Isn't it just wow to have been invited and be part of the party? Yeah you might be busy with your own stuff but hardly anyone ever turns down a joyous event. You'll just nonchalantly cancel whatever was on the schedule and say "What the heck, I need a break." Cheers!!!

But... what if your friend called you up when they are at their worst point of their life? They don't sound happy, maybe you even heard a whisper of their cry. What would you do? Whoa... I've been enough shit for the day and I ain't gonna keep up with more shit now? Wrong! When your friend actually seek you up for help at their lowest point you should be even happier and have that exact same WOW factor except only in capitals! Why the WOW you may ask? Your friend being at the worst state is not afraid to show themselves in their true colours. And seeking you is just amazing to know that you mean more than just a simple friend to them. Share a tear or two with them... put them back on their feet. Treasure them as much as they treasure you to tell you their sour moments. You'll be surprised how much your little time can affect a big portion of their life.

Humans are superficial beings. Be true starting from today and treasure everyone who is still around us.

"Seek for happiness infinitely."

Six & a Half Years not Five & a Half!

Thu, 28 Jun 2007 03:27:48 GMT

This is mainly to clear up the misleading number I gave out about me being single.

Scroll down for full story.

Relic Of Life

Wed, 20 Jun 2007 09:16:55 GMT

*Ding*... *click*... This particular MSN pop up has never failed to bring a smile on my face.

I call that the relic of my life. I believe that in life there is a relic for everyone. What is this relic that I'm referring to? My kind of relic is that particular someone that will unconditionally at any given point of time put a soothing serene smile on your face.

This relic has caught part of my heart ever since she was first introduced by my neighbour. Actually I'm sure she has captured more than just my heart. Lots of people has got a crush on her. This happened way back in my primary school years. Growing up and getting to know her better has further proof that she's definitely a girl to die for. But due to certain reasons I never make a move on her. Can't say I regret for not doing so because I believe it has turn out to be for a better cause.

She's quite a witty one. Just by talking to her in person or online has never failed to entertain me. We both play with words well... it's like a battle when we talk. We openly discuss just about anything under the sun which even makes our conversation even more intriguing.

Just recently, we had a great chat. A long long chat... reasons mainly due to the cause that I've got something that I wanted to tell her but decided not to after I took a piss break. She couldn't understand why and kept pestering me to tell. She even offer to make me feel better so that I'll spill it out. Hah! Fat chance... I ain't sinking down that easily! I told her that I'm gonna hold on to this till I see her in person then I'll tell her. Reason is because it's really an epic thing for her to know about it, so nope... not gonna tell her till we get to see each other. Oh.. added an expiry date on that so I will have to tell her in 3 years time even though we don't get to see each other in person. But I'll make sure I get to see her in person even though that means that I'll have to get tickets for her to fly or vice-versa.

In exchange I told her something else which makes me felt good letting it off my chest after all these while. I'm sure it did gave her justice on her counterpart too.

"Everyone has got a relic in their life."

Turn left - Happiness!

Fri, 15 Jun 2007 07:50:58 GMT

It hurts me to know that my friends are lack of choices.

More often I see them as special relics in my heart. So many endless wonders to be explore and unleash. But sometimes the environment has limited their abilities and space to shine.

I'm referring to lots of aspects. Be it work, talents or love.

I'll take a story of love for this example.
Pretty girl A is pretty. (Doh!)
Jerk dude A and Dumb dude B is going for Pretty girl A.
Hunk dude C is out of the picture.
Pretty girl A chose Dumb dude B.
Pretty girl A didn't know that she has got choice to say no to both and hope for Hunk dude C.
Pretty girl A suffers.

Sad stories repeats itself on different counterparts.

"You chose your happiness to be a myth."

Like A Sissy!

Thu, 14 Jun 2007 09:26:22 GMT

Talked to a friend about me being such a thinker. After a few sentences...

"James, stop thinking like a girl!"

BAM!!! Oh yeah that hits like a truck in my face! I ain't got nothing to loose.. why should I think like a girl? The questions and scenario that I often play in my head is so unnecessary!

Thanks!

5½ Years

Mon, 11 Jun 2007 08:39:23 GMT

5½ years I've been single. Some might say I'm bullshitting here but the word is out and there simply ain't no benefit for me lying about this matter.

Why? How? Trust me, those are the exact same questions I'm asking myself. And I remember I've always answered that I simply wasn't looking for one, rejected a few relationships here and there, can't even take of myself well why would I want to get myself more trouble, has got wonderful friends to stand by with, too much choices? Ha ha... indeed those are the few factors why I was single for 5½ years.

The series of fortunate events recently has certainly got me thinking a lot. The thinking has burn down to another conclusion I've made up 2 days ago. I'm afraid to love. Whoa! Afraid to love? Nothing from the last breakup hurt me badly that I couldn't recover, don't worry, I'm not a fragile piece of crap. So instead I think I've been thinking too much.

When I think there's a possibility to start a relationship, I would push myself to see the future with her by my side. It's like this amazing imagination of both our lives playing like a series of movie till the end of the day. Through out the movie there will be lots of played events with the both of our emotion involves, family background, wedding day, kids, growing old... yes, I'm one hell of a dreamer. Upon ending the movie with the scrolling credits, I would then evaluate how fair we turn out as a couple. Chances are not to good and I believe that I can find someone who is more compatible.

Oh hell, I can't go on any further with that story because I know I'm thinking too much and how would anyone in this blardy world knows what is gonna happen without me trying it out except for God Himself? There ain't no perfect woman and I ain't flawless too. Few of my friends has already further imply that I should cherish what I can and make the best out of it.

So listening to this clearly tells me that I should start breaking out of this protective imaginary invisible shield that fends off love and just go ahead with what I felt right at that particular moment? Now that will bring justice to my own conclusion to prove that I'm not afraid to love!

"The greatest thing in this world is to love and be loved in return - Moulin Rouge"

Paint Colours Into Your Rainbow

Thu, 10 May 2007 09:26:55 GMT

Colours is really a wonderful thing if you actually stop by and notice them.

Take a look around you... How the vibrant skies choose their colours and mood to suit the ever changing face of the earth. Look into the horizon, notice the soothing shades of green that lies atop of each other dancing in the wind. Spin around, take some time to be amazed by the ever changing colours of the streets.

Painting colours to a rainbow? Weird as it seems huh... Did you know that humans were only able to identify 4 colours out of the rainbow way back in the stone age? It's either our eyes actually evolved or I guess they just decided to add more shades of colour names into their colour wheel. Hence we have 7 shades of colour in a rainbow known today. I bet you can't even state the colours of the rainbow now in order!

Here you go: Red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet.

So back to the main question. Why paint colours that are already there to a rainbow?

I have a dear friend or should I say, I had a dear friend. I'm sitting here pondering and reading at the first line for quite sometime before I proceeed on writing. How did a dear friend turn sour so early? Ahh.. the series of unfortunate events and mistakes and somewhere along the line I did offended her without noticing. But hey, I was young and shallow back then!

Hmm.. how did wonderful colours came about to link to this dear friend of mine? She's a great girl. Ever so caring and brilliant. So caring up to a point she sacrifices. This is where I don't find it noble. Giving up your colours of life and painting it for others. Humans being selfish is a bad trait but then we all have to be self-centered at some point. It's a dog eat dog world out there.

While these teachings might be the perfect role model for everyone but do find a balance. Everyone deserves to be happy and it won't come till you want to pursue your own happiness. I have to admit that I was really happy for quite sometime too over some personal reasons but I'll live it through, I just have to start filling my own cup and stop running away. My dear, start painting colours into your rainbow. I think I know you well enough to say that I've not seen you really happy. You're always sour upon something you can just simply learn to 'let go'.

Four Days II

Tue, 08 May 2007 04:57:03 GMT

Deny, ignore, run, neglect, abandon...

Sad to say I've not been the usual self for quite sometime. A long time actually... I didn't ask for this but you know how fragile humans can be at times and they just can't get out of that diseased bubble. Looking away at the real world drenched and soak till the flesh rots and decay.

As some of you might know, last month was my birhday month. It's a really bad day for my birthday to fall on a good friday. Everyone was litterally at the church from day till night and there ain't no party for me. So seeing how bad 2007 started till my birthday it really makes me wonder why am I still here. I have to say there isn't really much for me to look forward to except for the upcoming Jazz Festival this weekend.

Hold me, thrill me, kiss me please. Gotta wake up from this reverie and taste the sun sweet berries of the earth again. Praying and hoping things we get better... God does always seem to send Angels to save me. I'm really thankful for His grace!

A dear friend said she'll be dropping to visit me for a few days. She couldn't decide until she realize that she lost her ticket to another destination. (God's grace?) She's the other person that I'm really looking forward to meet up after decaying for so long. Although she spent only four days in Miri, I must say she made me stop running away from myself and started thinking of filling that unshattered cup of mine. I could've do it myself but I guess I was just weak, very weak.

I could talk more about how interesting she is, like the wonderful chats at night, her short yoga lesson for me, the way she put on her make-ups, how she see things as they are, what she wants... I think a short glimpse for you all is enough. I'll shut here. Anymore than that would make me sound like I'm obsess with her.

How ironic, I had the best 4 days of my life last year and I'm getting it just before my birthday month ends this year. Gotta love myself more!

Kissing Is A Colour

Mon, 07 May 2007 10:05:14 GMT

When was the last time you actually kissed someone? Maybe it be a sloppy French kiss or just a peck on the cheek. For those of you who are attached then it might be just few hours ago or something. If not, do it when you see him/her later.

Colour... it comes in different tones and shades. Just like how kisses comes in different shapes and sizes... oh, different taste too! You must be thinking that I've most probably kissed a hell lot of people to actually come up with this topic. Well, I'm not sure how many is consider many but I think it's enough for me to say 'Kissing is a Colour'.

I send out my kisses to all my dearies. Yes only to my dearies. I don't go around and plant my lips on someone elses cheek or lips for no reason. I think a peck on the cheek is just a sweet gesture to say hello, thank you, you're sweet, goodbye and et cetera. A kiss on the lips brings kissing to a whole different level. It can be both a simple gesture or a complicated one. Simple as in hi my love and bye my love, complicated as in you know I want you or an opener to a more erotic invitation. French kissing to me is stricly for make out purposes. If you don't mind how the viewers would judge you then go ahead. It's your love.

Who do I kiss? My lovers of course. Or my dearies. Who are these dearies you might ask. They are the people who I think has made an impact in my life or a close friend since long time ago or just the next door neighbour who I have not seen in awhile. No intimate or French kisses for those who are not my lovers. That would render my lover just as cheap as my dearies.

I had a series of both shocking and wonderful surprises last weekend. The wonderful one is someone caught me partying and she nonchalantly kissed me on my lips as we pass each other by. Shocking one would be seeing another girl getting kissed around by 3 guys. I believe it's French too!

That is where I would draw the line damn thick. Kissing someone with nice etiquette is definitely a +1 for me but if I by any chance get kiss by the shocking girl I've said earlier. That's a -1 for me!

Lastly, NO is the answer if you're thinking funny thoughts of putting a male in the position of who I consider my deary.

A Dream

Sat, 05 May 2007 02:52:48 GMT

I have this super weird dream last night. (This dream I'm referring to happen way back in November 2006, had it as a draft for all these while.)

I found myself wandering around Mid Valley just like any other normal day but what is so weird about this dream is that Mid Valley has got an airport attached to it. Even better.. I'm on a flight back to Miri in a few hours time.

As usual Mid Valley is flocking with people and with the airport it's even more hectic. I just checked in at the counter.. I think it's somewhere near the GSC cinema area but the whole place is filled with very nice chrome objects and plus also all the usual airport stuff that you can find. I left my bags on a table. A table that looks a lot like a Mc D's one.

I have a few friends with me at that moment too. Can only remember a few friends. We walked quite a bit around Mid Valley because my time to board isn't up yet. Caught up with a few more friends surprisingly.. it's like a big family.. even the people who I don't think will be seeing. (actually I don't really wanna see them)

We all hang out and have a few drinks and laugh. Suddenly the time just zoom pass me till it's like 10 minutes before boarding. I was so panic I ran towards my luggage and I just couldn't find them anywhere. My heart was beating madly and I bet I looked stupid running around with my face on scary mode.

I got so panic I just woke up. Realizing that the dream isn't just a dream. It's my life losing everything.

Filling the Cup

Fri, 04 May 2007 01:44:15 GMT

Cup of life, cup of love, cup of hopes, cup of career, cup of dreams...
Where did my cup go?

Do you have a cup?
If you do, how does it look like?
How big is it?
Where you bought it?
What do you fill it with most of the time?

This is my cup. It's no ordinary coffee cup.
There's more to it than what it seems.
This is my cup. Sitting on that shelf.
Avoiding the purpose of it's nature.
This is my cup. Unshattered, Untouched.

This is my cup. Empty and tasteless.
Awaits dearly to be filled to the brim.
This is my cup. Selected out of the rest.
It will be served for the best of the best.
This is my cup. Polished, Prepared.

10 Things Harmful That Will Actually Improve Your Life?

Fri, 08 Dec 2006 03:01:25 GMT

The newest bad kid on the block, beer has long been overshadowed by its healthier alcoholic cousins. While no one's suggesting you switch that glass of antioxidant-rich Pinot Noir for a tall glass of lager—there's still that beer gut to worry about—new research has suggested that moderate beer intake can actually improve cardiovascular function. Now if only a scientist will discover the health benefits of ballpark franks and chicken wings. Heaven.
If you're one of those people who tends to bottle things up, only to explode ... don't hold it in so long. Studies show that bursts of anger here and there are good for the health, and can be an even more effective coping mechanism than becoming afraid, irritated or disgusted. Anger, like the consumables in this list, however, is best in moderation: stay angry for long periods of time and you'll be plagued with a host of health issues, like blood pressure, sleep disorders and lung damage.
Java is one of the most debated substances around. Is it good for you? Is it bad for you? Both? The consensus, now anyways, seems to favor those who enjoy their morning jolt—unrelated studies claim coffee is a major source of antioxidants in our diet and can help lower your risk of diabetes. Something in the beans is also thought to ease the onset of cirrhosis of the liver and pancreatitis, good news for those who like to party hard all night before their morning caffeine boost.
We're definitely not in the business of advocating drug use. But check out this interesting science: In heavy drinkers, small doses of LSD have been thought to help bypass the rock-bottom stage of alcoholism and prevent relapses. These studies—some decades old—were done in closely monitored, clinical settings; many patients haven't had a drink in the many years since. It's an interesting finding that needs a lot more investigation, and not a remedy that should ever be tried at home. Meantime—and this may come as no surprise—a recent study of 36 volunteers who took an LSD-like drug in a lab setting had them reporting mystical experiences and behavior changes that lasted for weeks.
Exposure to the sun's rays is necessary to survive, but can also kill you in gross, cancerous quantities. Asthmatics, at least, could benefit from measured doses of ultraviolet rays, according to scientists. Sunlight suppressed the immune reactions that cause asthma in some lab studies with mice and could be used to treat humans afflicted with the disease in the future. And sunlight—even if indirect, such as on a shaded porch—is known to boost the mood. Extra sunlight can help office workers avoid afternoon drowsiness, a recent study found. There's still no excuse to head outside and bake, however.
They're creepy, slimy and altogether ooky, but maggots can save your life. These squirmy larvae are science's newest wonder-cure and were approved in 2003 as the Food & Drug Administration's only live medical device. Placed on serious wounds, maggots mimic their "wild" lifestyle and munch on bacteria and dead tissue, stimulating healing and helping to prevent infection.
It's medicinal, we swear! Marijuana, often associated with memory loss, is ironically now being hyped as a way to stave off the ultimate form of memory loss—Alzheimer's. Recent studies on mice suggest that anti-inflammatories found in the drug prevent the clumping of brain proteins, one major cause of the disease. So when should you start preventative therapy? We suggest waiting for the human studies to wrap up.
A crucial ingredient in the diets of the world's heart-healthiest populations—like those Bordeaux-guzzling French—red wine has long been known to have potent anti-cancer and artery-protecting benefits. The key, some studies indicate, is an antioxidant found specifically in the skin of red wine grapes, called resveratrol. The latest studies even link resveratrol to greater endurance, a reduction in gum disease and Alzheimer's. White wine, which is fermented after the skins are removed, is less beneficial according to some studies.
Chocolate lovers rejoice: study after study lately has touted the magical benefits of the indulgent treat, which is packed with the antioxidant flavonols that prevent certain cancers and keep your arteries from clogging. The most recent news? These powerful chemicals may even increase blood flow to the brain, warding off dementia. Just stick to the highest cocoa content possible—the bars packed with sugar don't help your health one bit.
Scientists have found that the benefits of sex go beyond immediate, ahem, gratification and satisfying the goal of procreation. Besides the obvious evolutionary purposes, we can all take pleasure in the news that having sex is an easy way to reduce stress, lower cholesterol and improve circulation throughout the body. As if you needed another excuse.

"The Question"

Sat, 01 Jul 2006 23:04:07 GMT

There, just about a few minutes ago. I was talking about my cousins relationship and marriage stuff with dad. Before finishing the topic he asked if I had a girlfriend. I shooked my head. He then told me that I should get one for myself. I said 'worried that I couldn't get one?'. He explained that it's not because of marriage sake. But I should start building one now because I'm not young anymore. He added that he and mum 'pak tow' for 8 years before getting married.

In my mind... is it really necessary for the 'break-in' period? Does 'break-in' happen before courtship even begins? Must everyone spend at least 5 years just to figure out the compatibility? How about knowing a person so well, you then decided to have each other for the rest of the life? Does that mean that I should start getting into relationship and see if the 'pak tow' period does work out? Can't just two souls get together because they knew that they were meant for each other instead of trying out different puzzle pieces?

"To be on a quest is nothing more or less than to become an asker of questions."

The Attitude That Is Familiar?

Mon, 17 Apr 2006 08:08:06 GMT

"Some people only ask questions to which they already know the answers. They only accept challenges that they can meet easily and they only drive to reach their destination."

That phrase makes me sad. Humans are limiting their possibilities more and more everyday. A lot of us are brought up in a secure world. Full of safeguard and protection. (protection is good only at some points ) We are all shaped up by what our parents wanted.

We should all realize that there's so much more imbue in us on the day we're born. We can achieve much more, reach higher, swim deeper, go further and many more!

"Take that challenge and push your limits!"

The number that you've dialed, is not in service.

Sat, 20 Aug 2005 08:56:52 GMT

Has anyone ever gotten into a situation where you're trying hard to have an on-going conversation after knowing someone well enough? It leads you to believe that it seems that you know each other so well that you don't know what other new topics to stir up?

Well, personally I think there's no such thing like knowing a person too well. How can you justify that you really know them? People constantly change... everyday! The sun can set a million times down that horizon and it will never look the same. If conversations were to stop after being close and knowing them, does this means that our parents would stop communicating with each other after a certain time? Or are they still trying to understand each other every moment they are still talking?

I find that conversation breakdowns are often because one of them lose interest in talking. Fed up with the whole thing and just don't want to connect anymore. If anyside were to constantly come up with ideas, arguementative and interesting topics every day, every hour, every minute... I'm sure there wouldn't be a problem with communicating. But if one side decides to give up then all hope is lost.

Communication isn't a simple thing. It requires lots of experience and knowledge.

"Learn to talk."

Dating The Untouchables (for men)

Thu, 18 Aug 2005 04:43:23 GMT

Women like power. Show your guts and self-confidence. Someone has to be able to protect her when she is like the only flower among the bees.
Women like charisma. If you can make a woman laugh, you probably can make her do anything. They wouldn't want someone who is just good-looking without a sense of humour.
Women like conversations. Stop starring at her but instead talk to her. They most probably get hit on very often to be sleep with. Think different.
Women like respect. Be cool, don't drool. Respect her as a woman not as a sex object. Be a gentleman.
Women like praises. Tell her that you admire her. Not only just the looks but her. Compliment them on the most subtle actions. Like when she twitch her lips.
Women like observations. Women know themselves. Never ignore her looks. Say how matching her scarf is with her dress.
Women like IQ. As much as you want to sleep with her, she doesn't. They prefer someone who will help them grow.
Women like freedom. Trust her as much as you want her to trust you. It's common for her to get pick up and hit on most of the time. Be nice to the guy and he will be nice to you. Jealous, don't be.

45 things women wished we knew. 45 answers James is gonna give.

Tue, 16 Aug 2005 19:25:18 GMT

Saying "I love you" immediately before, during, or following sex doesn't count.
Usually guys are just so into the moment they think that's love. Say "Thank You" instead.
Real men drive stick shift.
Guys are born to drive manual. And if you don't, you're a sissy!
I will leave if you lie.
We'll be disappointed if you lie.
I'm convinced I'm pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so.
Kill me please.
I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.
We would feel the same too if you did the same.
"Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.
In our eyes. You look 100% at all times. Maybe "Fine" is a hint that you should look better?
Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.
Saying it out loud can help a lot, thank you.
I'm terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.
We know, we can't imagine that we're dating your mum. How can we help?
I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you.
Do let us know. Please?
I expect you to call me.
We expected just the same. (Nice guys would call you back instead after you call.)
Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants.
As much as you wanting to be a superstar, we want too!
I'm scared of losing my independence.
We're just as scare as you are.
I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be.
Then don't. Some of us deserve none.
You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not.
Don't act. I ain't giving you Oscars for that.
If I'm not having sex with you, I'm... a. ...having a fat day. b. ...not feeling "connected" to you. c. ...blackmailing you to get something I want.
If we're not having sex with you, then you're in big trouble!
Shoes determine whether you're fashionable or not.
Our budget determine that you should be less fashionable.
When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.
Don't compare in the first place.
A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.
A woman we love will get it.
You should never tell me what to do.
We actually tell you because we still care.
If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.
Sleep over by all means!
My breasts love much licking and sucking.
Tell us then. We would never hesitate to do a favour like that.
If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.
What else do you say yes to?
I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.
Don't overdo this. Male ego is very vain.
I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead.
I would be unimpressed with the man too!
I want to be Madonna.
We'll be Guy Ritchie.
Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.
We wished we knew too.
I'm in heaven when you hold my hand.
It's not only always about you. We too would be in heaven when you hold our hand.
You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.
Thank you.
I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.
Not all guys can talk. Be considerate.
Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.
How about our loving?
I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this.
We never think of any less. Let's try our best ok?
If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking....
We will make you feel love. How about us? Should we start looking too?
Discussion of ex-gf's and ex-bf's should be avoided at all times.
If it happens then you're still not over your ex.
I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself.
I think I tell too much then. Haha
Celebrating our anniversary, even if it's only been a few months, earns major bonus points.
Can we do it together? It's our celebration. Don't expect it only from us.
I love it when you're sweaty.
We'll sweat for you.
It's best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.
Unless you know her well.
A lady should always be greeted with kisses.
A lady can invite kisses to be given too.
I like porn.
Tell.
I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.
I'm sure none of us ever disallow that to happen.
Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.
Open the topic for goodness sake.
It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...
I understand this. Not sure if everyone does...
For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.
We feel the same too.
I remember everything about our relationship.
Only the good moments please.
You should know all this and more with-out my telling you.
You expect us to know this? Man wouldn't be call man in the first place.

Wise and stupid career paths

Sat, 06 Aug 2005 21:19:18 GMT

You see, I find lots of people who has got no future planning or any sorts. They usually took courses they don't even want to get involved in. So, here are some of the cool and un-cool jobs I've been noticing.

Cool jobs

Wine promoting. If you have a passion for food testing, this certainly suits your role. It's more like lifestyle rather than work. Don't you think?
Athletic training. If you're a sports person then this definitely is your cup of tea. What could be better than training them and making sure of their tip-top conditions for the greens.
Broadcasting. This certainly sounds like an exciting job. Seeing those VJ's on Channel V, National Geography workers and others just makes you wonder how to start getting paid appearing on TV?
Image consulting. A lot of us can do this. but not professionally of course. Image consulting basically earns from telling a person how to shine vibrant colors no matter how they look.
Music theraphy. This is like a guranteed paycheck for being in the music industry. This job basically helps a person's health through music.
Event planner. Imagine satisfying the crowd because of your superb plannings? Sounds good right? This is what you have to do being a event planner. Make sure everything goes right at the right moments. Do be warned that it can be time consuming.
Fashion buying. What you need here is the nature of loving to shop. Get contacts into big events and functions and you're the one who decides where to buy the needed items and sell them to customers with profit.
Crime scene investigation. If you happen to like CSI series then this is what you should pursue in your career in the near future.

Un-cool jobs

Farmers and ranchers. With future technological advancement. There won't be much need on man-power farms and ranches.
Sewing machine operators. This goes with the same theory seen above. Maybe Louis Vuitton might still be hiring workers for their hand-made bags but chances are less job opportunities in this sector.
Word processors / data-entry keyers. Barcode has already saved lots of hassle just inputing datas. So who knows what might happen in the future especially with autofill-form features found on most computers. Chances are slim that you'll be doing good.
Stock clerks / order fillers. Computer will certainly put this sector out of misery with automated hardwares and softwares.
Secretaries. Not all secretaries will be gone for good. Those with a better chance to survive are legal, medical and executive secretaries. Guess some of the work still has to be done manually with brain power rather than automated machines.

So jealous!

Tue, 02 Aug 2005 10:32:39 GMT

Ask yourself, why do you have to hate someone even he or she did not lay a finger or say a word to you in the beginning? Jealous? This can be applied into lots of situations.

For example : You didn't like your new colleague because he gets more attention from your boss. You grew to hate him when you realize that he's even better than you in anything. Worst still, he's scoring with your girl!

Ok, that might be the worst situation anyone could've been in. I'm sure you would be swearing his ass off while throwing darts on his photo. Now here, let me give you another scope. Why don't you try to turn that hatred off and try to get to know him. Maybe if you two get along, both of you might reach higher standards in work and he won't probably score with your girl.

Fear. Jealousy is a form of fear too. You were afraid of the situation going out of hand. It's easier when you allow yourself to stop worrying. (He most probably ain't scoring with your girl.)
Trust. This is an important factor to take note. If you can't trust yourself, certainly you cannot trust others. Remember, actions speak louder than words. Don't say you trust your partners and still showing signs that you're jealous.
Weak. When you're jealous, you're just showing them your weakness. You just gave them a good point to attack your vulnerability till you drop yourself.
Power. People who are jealous are often seeking for power. Power gives you great form of command and control over another person. Don't be such a jerk off.

Jealousy brings no joy. Think of it as a butterfly in your hand. The more jealousy you have the harder you squeeze. Let your jealousy subside and you start letting it flutter around you with grace.

"Ain't worth the hassle being jealous."

Facts on sex!

Sat, 30 Jul 2005 20:01:10 GMT

Some stuff on the men

94% of men lie about their penis size. According to condom manufacturers, only 6% of men use extra large condoms.
The average man is 5 inches long when erect (no matter what you have heard ladies, that's the truth).
80% of American men are uncircumsized. Even though Pediatrics say it is not necessary.
No matter what all the ads say, nothing can make your penis grow but time (most men reach the end of their growth by the early 20's)
There is no correlation between penis size and shoe size, hand size, or nose size.
Blue balls does exist! It's technically called "prostatic congestion."
Only 16% of men shave their privates.

Some stuff on the ladies

Only 9% of women around the globe consider themselves "attractive" (20% of British women do). 43% of women use the term "natural", 24% say they have "average" looks, 8% prefer the term "feminine", 7% say they are "good looking", and 7% say they are "cute", and finally only 2% of women say they are "sexy".
An estimated 85% of women wear the wrong size bra.
60% of women have had breast implants.
75% of women dont like oral sex.
95% of women shave their privates.

Both

Masturbation is healthy for both men and women.
70% of highschoolers have had sex before they have graduated. 27% loose their virginity senior prom night. Only 3% wait until marriage.
95% of men would have sex with a girl after 1 month of dating. Only 10% of women feel this way.

5 Reasons Why Sex is Good

It is a good workout. Sex burns about 150 calories every half an hour of it. It will lower your cholesterol and improve breathing circulation.
You won't get sick. According to research if you have sex 1-2 times a week you are less likely to
get sick.
You'll feel happier. You will feel a greater sense of well-being. Women who have more sex were clinically proven to be less depressed than women who dont have sex.
Makes you look better - [ problem is ugly people don't get any ]. Sex releases hormones in your body which make your skin and hair softer and shinier and tone your physic.
(The best reason) You will live longer. Studies prove that sex makes you live longer. Men who had sex 1-2 times a week had half the death rate as those who did not indulge themselves at least once a month. It also makes you look younger. If you have sex 3 times a week you may look up to 10 years younger than you really are.

Now boys and girls... this doesn't mean that you all should have sex just because of this article. It's just some facts that I think everyone should know about. It's a sin to have sex before marriage and the consequences is big! And for those out there who are still sinning. Do practice safe sex! Better still... STOP!

Whoopsie... ex-files.

Sat, 16 Jul 2005 08:50:09 GMT

I've never gotten like super super close with any of my ex. And damn well no intimacy after that. No intentions whatsoever. You see... the reason they are known as ex is because you draw a big X over their name. Indicating it's broken, unusable. So look forward, don't turn back and bite that sour fruit again. It's so yesterday!

But then sometimes some people tend to do it anyway. So here are some situations and ways I think you should deal with it.

The coincidence. Oh yeah. It's a beautiful day. With the striking sun out of sight and breezy breeze brushing your face. Nothing else could go wrong... something caught your eye. Your ex-girl/boyfriend is walking towards you with a new soulmate. Now, be nice! Act like you're pleased to meet the other half even though it hurts. You would look bad if you showed any sign that you're still upset over the whole thing. Don't talk for too long and make sure you say how nice it is to meet up with them both and then excuse yourself. Focus, focus... eye on a better half for yourself and let them turn green.
The bed scene. Yes, it was an accident... hit me baby one more time! You did tell yourself over and over again not to cross that line but some how it happened. Trust me... either one of you would be thinking that it's just a casual sex session. So what I say is. Keep yourself occupied with something else. This is a bad habit to keep up with.
The sound of wedding bells. You picked up your phone non-chalantly thinking that someone nice is calling you. It's your ex-girl/boyfriend's number. You answered it hoping that it should be no big of a deal. To your surprise,your ex is getting married. Guess what, you're on the invitation list. Hmm... if the event brings bitterness to you then I guess you should skip the wedding and go out with your friends to forget about the whole event. Only show up if you're totally over it and you're there to bless your ex.
I want you back. Oooo... sounds like a bliss? Think again. Stand firm on your ground. Re-check his/her quality. Has he/she become a better self? Why it didn't work out before and would it work this time? Don't accept just because you're lonely, you needed a date or hearing I love you from him/her. Getting a second chance is something for him/her to work for. So work his/her ass off to get you back.

Get up and be loved once again!

Mon, 11 Jul 2005 21:26:01 GMT

This particular entry is specially written for those who are single or still not over with their recent sorrows. Stop weeping, put on that 100% confident outfit of yours, get a decent aura, say hi to the person in the mirror and get your ass back up in the field and play ball! If you're really hopeless and lost, here I bundled 20 ways to heat up the season for either a red-hot fling or a long-lasting love. Godspeed!

Recruit the new. A party or a night out would be fine. You need to get to know someone new through your friends. Also it's much safer to date your friend's friend.
Fun is all you need. Go have a blast. When you're not out in the wild with the thoughts of hunting something down, you might just be the hunted.
Be occupied. Make sure your calender is pack with events! The more you do, the more chances you can grab hold of.
Go dateless. You don't need a date to go movies, beach party, bbq, house party and so on. Spin your spider webs. The special person might just get caught.
Be yourself. Get comfortable. Relax and find inner peace. Love yourself and others will start loving you.
Skip the bar. You don't always have to be at a bar to get picked up. Try Starbucks or Coffee Bean for a change. The bookstore is another good choice too.
Get connected. Get plug onto the world wide web. Start instant messages, e-mails and any means of communication.
Read. Self-help books can help a lot in this area. Especially when you have no one to turn to, to ask for help.
Make friends. Be bold. Try to make new friends and expand your circle of life.
Don't be shy. Guys or girls. It's the 21st century! If you think that someone is good enough for you. Make it happen. Don't let it pass you by like a dream.
Make that change. Look into the mirror. Tell that person in the mirror to make that change. Be active in the society around you. You feel much better doing something better than nothing.
A perfect plan. Plot the whole date out. Use all the right moves. Time, place and attitude.
Another shot. Recruit your old friends. Those who are still single. Reach out for them and have a pot luck or sorts. There might be something that wasn't there before.
Pet-sit. Offer a helping hand if your friends needed you to take care of their flurry balls. Pets can be a good companion. They offer unconditional love.
Go with blind dates. Don't worry. This isn't the last resort. Take all the chances you can find. Your friends just might be right with the perfect soulmate for you.
Advertisements. This is fun. Post your personal details and stuff on the nearby store or a small corner on the papers or mags. Don't think of it as cheap. I dare you to!
Be a member. Find something you like and register as a member. The new activity you just picked up is gonna help you meet someone new this season.
Search at the right places. If you're looking for a fling, most probably a bar. A commited one, try the bookstore or the library instead. You can go by interest too. Like musicians can be found in music festivals. Church is also another great place.
Go shop. Browse along the malls and you'll get to know interesting people that might just be doing what you're doing.
Make a move. DO NOT WAIT!

"Keep your options open."

What's your kissing style?

Mon, 11 Jul 2005 20:06:11 GMT

Who doesn't like the idea of kissing? I love kisses. Be it just a peck, a long passionate kiss, a tongue teaser or Hershey's kisses. After taking the kissing quiz. They've concluded that I'm a born romantic.

From what the article says. The great thing about being inherently romantic is that I actually enjoy kissing. I, being a born romantic is very lucky. My kisses provide a tender, wonderful way to stay connected with my partner. It is natural for me to have the instinct to kiss as a way to communicate love and affection. By reaching out in that manner, I continually strengthen the bond with my significant other. My relationships tend to benefit from seeking out opportunities to express my fondness. It's a second-nature to me.

Take the quiz today and see what's your kissing style!

And also here are some facts you might like to know:

Record romancing. The current record for the longest kiss is held by a New Jersey couple who kissed for a record 30 hours, 59 minutes, and 27 seconds on December 5, 2001, as part of a Valentine's Day TV special.
Make-out workout. A passionate kiss uses up 6.4 calories per minute.
Oooh! Germs! During a kiss, as many as 278 colonies of bacteria are exchanged.
Road testing. The average American woman has kissed 79 men before she is married.
Sexiest screen smooches. According to a Gallup poll, the hottest kisses take place between Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh in Gone With The Wind.
You may kiss the bride. The nuptial kiss at the altar began during Roman times as a symbol of the spiritual union between bride and groom, who exchanged "the breath of life."
Slip of the tongue. The term "French kiss" came into use in prudish America in 1923 as a slur on French culture, which was thought to be shockingly oversexed.
When in France. Don't call it a French kiss at all. The proper, more titillating term: a "tongue kiss" or "soul kiss."
Kissing cousins. Ninety percent of the people of the world engage in kisses on the lips, anthropologists say. Some other cultures, such as Eskimos, use the "smell kiss" -- rubbing noses.
Lip smackeroos. A lipstick imprint of a kiss made by Mick Jagger's mouth once sold for $1,600.--Jeannie Ralston

"Kissing is a sport."

In love?

Mon, 11 Jul 2005 04:59:03 GMT

You know you're so in love when...

You pay extra attention to how you look before you see him/her.
You have crush-like thoughts. (eg. "He/she'd will love this song!")
You would try to spend each second of the day with him/her.
You want to hold him/her in your arms and freeze the moment.
You tell him/her a lot about your daily life in extra details.
You start conversations about relationships with him/her.
You want to start something between the two of you but afraid of losing him/her if things go wrong.
You would give up the whole world just for him/her.

You were strong.

Sun, 10 Jul 2005 09:10:55 GMT

Time after time, I've always heard about the human kind complaining that they cannot go on after any particular separation. To me... that's bullshit! We are known as human beings, the utmost living creature created by God in the image of Himself. We are the only living creature that has got the power to adapt, think and feel.

So here comes the story... Guy and girl gets together. They love each other. One day, guy and girl decided to call it quits. Let's say the guy is a jerk. (Usually we are) Girl gets heartbroken badly. Cried for countless nights and still couldn't get over with it. None of the remedy she tried could help herself.

Now here I would like to stress that, situations like this is bullshit! We were alone. We were not attached. Don't tell me that someone is gonna come into your life and leave with a big hole in your heart. Yeah, I know it hurts but we can get over it. There will be a hole, but we just have to learn to deal with it. Patch things up and go on with life. Think about the days you were single and you lived your life happily without even needing the other half. Why? How? The days are still there but it's you who want to think that it's the end of the world. We humans can live alone normally, healthily.

But you'll say it's love. Yes, I know it's love... the mumbo jumbo feeling and stuff. But think twice. It's call loved. (past tense, mind you) So the situation has changed. If you're still complaining then it's just a habit to be with the other half. How about getting use to another situation for a change. A way better situation that is gonna make you whole again.

Seriously, don't let me look down on you. I've been in love and out of love. It's not that big of a deal. Yeah, you might say that I'm just heartless or I've got friends there to go through with me. But does it really help? Can friends really help you when you still have to climb onto your bed at night alone and start thinking of all the good times and start sobbing again? They can talk to you the whole day but when the night comes you're all alone again. It's just an excuse we give ourselves. Live for yourself! You build your own future and destroys your own future if you may. Claim back your independence right from this very second. Life is full of chances and opportunities, and it's up for us to learn to grab them.

"Falling in and out of love is part of growing up. It makes us stronger."

Life is good

Sat, 09 Jul 2005 18:09:29 GMT

I find life so incomprehensible, inconceivable, incredible, unbelievable, unimaginable, unthinkable; extraordinary, phenomenal, rare, sensational, spectacular; singular, uncommon, unique, unusual, unwonted; conspicuous, notable, noticeable, outstanding, remarkable; impressive, striking; animating, energizing, enlightening, enlivening, exciting, galvanizing, invigorating, stimulating; alluring, attracting, attractive, beguiling, bewitching, captivating, charming, enchanting, entertaining, enthralling, fascinating, interesting... need I go on any further?

Seriously, I couldn't love my life more than this! I thank God for all the things He has showed and given me. I feel so blessed. Yes, I have to admit there are times that I do feel sad and in fact it still attacks me once awhile... but despite all those sour moments. What God has offered these days is totally worth it!

I'm so so so blessed, blest, blissful, blithe, can't complain, captivated, cheerful, chipper, chirpy, content, contented, convivial, delighted, ecstatic, elated, exultant, flying high, gay, glad, gleeful, gratified, hopped up, intoxicated, jolly, joyful, joyous, jubilant, laughing, light, lively, looking good, merry, mirthful, overjoyed, peaceful, peppy, perky, playful, pleasant, pleased, satisfied, sparkling, sunny, thrilled, tickled, tickled pink, up, upbeat!

"My life rocks!"

Four days

Sat, 09 Jul 2005 17:36:16 GMT

This is a phrase I took out from the movie Garden State and I think it reflects what happened in my life.

Movie : Garden State

Period : 01:32:49,055 --> 01:32:52,024
Script : You changed my life, and I've known you four days.

I would like to have a public opinion on this. Four days... how much can 96 earth hours change a person's life? Has anyone out there ever experience a beautiful exciting impact onto your life after spending time with a person for four days or less? Can they actually do that?

I'll shed some light on my personal experience. I didn't exactly know this gal for four days only but we did spend four days together. We enjoyed each others company and we spend lots of time together painting the town red. She is one of the most delightful girl to talk to. I feel content just by talking to her. I adored her and her presence brings serenity. Well, this is part of our conversation. She said to me on the fourth day :

"I don't think four days is enough for you to..."

- "To have feelings for you?"

I can't really come out with a conclusion for that. I'm rather confused myself. It can just be an infatuation.

You see, life is so intriguing. There are so many wondrous ways to arouse the interest of oneself. And I believe it takes way less than 96 hours for that to happen.

"It's amazing how a short period of time can alter a person."

Caution: Hazardous to sperm

Wed, 08 Jun 2005 10:20:14 GMT

Toxins. Avoid! Protective clothing, proper ventilation and face masks can reduce the risk of absorbing such toxins through your skin, mucous membranes and lungs.
Avoid tobacco and limit alcohol. You know this will risk you having infertility and erectile dysfunction in men. Have fun!
Green leafs or sorts? Drugs can contribute to erectile dysfunction, and amphetamines can decrease sex drive.
No sauna. Having your private parts in water over 40 degrees may lower your sperm count..
No heater for showers. Long, hot baths reduce the number and vitality of sperm just as much as hot tubs and saunas do. Take showers instead.
Get off that seat. Prolonged sitting at work, at home or in your car may raise scrotal temperature and impair sperm production.
Keep hormone balance. Natural is the best. Avoid consuming drugs at all cause. Testoterone supplements doesn't work. It gives the negative effects.
Taking medications? Many prescription medications may temporarily reduce your fertility.

Dressing for business casual

Wed, 08 Jun 2005 10:04:06 GMT

What's hot

Tailored trousers.
Pressed khakis.
Sweater sets and simple sweaters.
Shaped button-downs.
Conservative sandals.

What's not

Jeans.
Too-short skirts.
Tight or revealing sweaters.
Worn, dirty, or ragged anything.
Sexy or sloppy shoes.

Who is trying?

Wed, 01 Jun 2005 10:07:02 GMT

I was walking in the malls today and I passed by a bookstore. It's one of my favourite spots to hang out. You can learn so much just about anything. And of course not to mention the fair or gentle ones you meet up in the bookstore. A top choice to look for your soulmate. (TIP 1 : Start from your favourite catergory of books)

Anyway, what I want to share today is about the topic. "Who is trying?" What I meant here is : who is trying to turn who on? It can also be put as : who is trying to satisfy who?

If you're still uncertain, I want to be specific that the topic is base on sex. Interesting topic, ain't it? I browse through a lot of category of mags. And through all the car mags, tech mags, men and women mags. I can't help but notice how they emphasize all the sex topics on the front magazine cover of men and women mags. This leads me to wonder, are men and women facing the same problem? And the topics they are trying to solve are always encouraging a better sex life. Are human so incapable of enjoying something that enjoyable?

If most of the time men magazines are trying to satisfy women in every possible way. That means guys are bad in bed. But that isn't true. Women magazines stated clearer on how to turn them on and give them a good time. With all these tipping off who is good? Or should I say who is bad?

I gave it a clearer thought and my conclusion is. We are simply sleeping with the wrong people! It's so hard to satisfy each other because this sex thing is so personal. And to get that perfect connection is just simply hard. Fixing this problem requires both parties to be truthful and open to each other. They must be able to request or give in to the needs of each other. Compromising is the key.

"Satisfaction requires compromising"

Dating someone older? (guys) Dating someone younger? (gals)

Sun, 08 May 2005 20:40:15 GMT

Very interesting topic indeed right?

I wouldn't say that they are the best choices out there but I believe there are their benifits in this area.

Do you find mature ladies more fun? They don't go out until midnight and claim that they are Cinderellas. They are mostly up for anything. They would not turn you down out of the blues and most importantly they are reasonable.

And being older... they are more caring. I should say this might be traits of a mom but it's all good. It seriously comforts you when times are rough. Who wouldn't like a strong women right? Strong also means that, having her own career, financially independent, groovy apartment with a walk-in wardrobe and huge social network! Guys... I know most of the time you might feel inferior with all these things but think about it. Isn't it great to have such a fabulous woman? It can be a drive for you to work harder to succeed in life too!

Guys... I'm sure you all would love to have someone who is in auto gear when they are in bed. Someone who is experience and not having all the wrong signs and styles. Don't take me wrong ladies. We don't date you all just because we wanted to utilize our dick. I'm just putting this comment because it's real that all of you do perform well and it's just a bonus to us.

Having advantages proves that this tricky situation can't be that perfect. Here are the few disadvantages.

The first disadvantage I can think of would be the timeline. It's sad to know that their taste seems a lil' odd. Your childhood topics might seem a lil off but look at all these things at a bright side. You have more to learn from each other!

While they might be no age barrier at all among the two of you lovely couples. Remember... there might be some problems when it comes to each other's group of friends. The stuff her friends talk about or do about might not please you but hey, don't you think if you can accept her why not accepting everything of her! Roll with it, you might be enjoying the moment. Don't turn the situation sour, adapt the environment instead of trying to change it.

Having age gap also means that the woman you're dating wouldn't really agree to negotiate her uterus. You might want to have babies while she might not or vice-versa. So I guess no matter what happens. Keep it low for the first few months. Bringing up the b-word would shock them if you were to request 5 kids. Having a baby isn't a game. It does show a very big sign of maturity in you but it carries more than just responsibility.

You're In Love?

Sat, 30 Apr 2005 21:45:19 GMT

Have you ever came across a person, opposite sex that is. A person who failed to make a big impact on the first sight, nor did he or she attracted you in anyway you could possibly think of. But... time showed the true colours. The true colours of the person. Suddenly the person started to glow with a special aura. A simple and innocent attractiveness that you thought wasn't there before.

I'm not talking about that sudden stylish cool hunky look neither is that sudden sexy long red dress with a low slit where you can almost see her nipples. I'm talking about a person who has got a personality that shines. It shines so bright that it simply catches you easily and captivates you. Gradually, you're awe by the sight of the person without you even knowing it. Your heart beats so fast that it starts to melt. Your brain is like a railway with millions of trains passing by. In short, you're in love?

Seriously, I have no say to this. I'm confused myself too. But not giving a perception of my point of view, then there's no point for this entry. Before I could really say something about it. You have to be clear of what love is.

What is love? For me... love... I consider it a highly dangerous substance. It makes people do stupid things and creates disaster in our hearts. Although most of the time it is wonderful and love may appear to save the world every now and then. As bad as it seems, we human still want to search for it. And I know of some people that could never live without love. Is it addictive? Is it that amazing? When does it hit and when does it bounce off? It comes like a tsunami, so high you're drowned by it and leaves like a hurricane, so fast you never know what hit you.

I believe as far as personal traits might go. Love is always forgiving. Love is always caring. Love is always accepting. Love is always missing. Love is always giving. Love is always first.

If you think there's a person in your life that is worth that much values. You're in love.

"Love is part of growing up."